My Sister, My Love "depicts the tragedy that a family suffers from due to the unexpected death of their sister, Bryce, through the perspective of Siglo Lampack. Under the misunderstanding of the media and the public, Shi Gaile experienced torment in psychiatric hospitals and rehabilitation schools. Ten years later, he discovered that his mother was the murderer, and this truth faced him with a moral and emotional decision. The narrative perspective and psychological description of the novel have received praise from the critics, exploring the ethical crisis of the family, Gothic style, and the ethical choices of the protagonist. Shi Gaile's choice is not only crucial for his growth, but also reflects his transformation from emotional to ethical to religious life, ultimately achieving personal freedom.

1、 The occurrence of tragedy and the stagnation of growth

Through Fromm's perspective of humanitarian ethics, this article analyzes the tragic experiences of the protagonists, Siglo and Bliss, in the novel "My Sister, My Love," who grow up in a family environment lacking parental care and guidance. The selfishness of parents and their pursuit of fame and fortune led them to overlook the growth needs of their children, which seriously affected the personality development of Siglo. Due to a lack of love experience, Sigler is unable to develop the ability to love and establish positive connections with others. His rational potential is also hindered, leading to his inability to think and judge independently. Under the influence of family tragedy and parental betrayal, Siglo suffered from severe mental illness, with stagnant growth and self-awareness at the age of nine.

2、 The emergence of truth and opportunities for growth

After his mother's death, Sigler learned the truth, which freed him from long lies and deception, but with it came anger and despair. Faced with the choice of whether to expose his mother, he must make a decision between love and hate, creativity and destructiveness. Fromm's theory points out that personal choices are the key to personality development, and Schalke's choices not only affect his personal growth, but also relate to his ability to transcend reality and achieve self realization. With the help of the pastor, Sigler ultimately made a choice that helped him grow and move towards freedom and happiness.

3、 Ethical Choice and Personality Growth

In depth exploration of the process of personal growth achieved through ethical choices in "My Sister, My Love" by Sigler. Fromm's humanitarian ethics provides a theoretical foundation for analysis, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and self actualization. Under the guidance of the pastor, Sigler learned to listen to his inner voice, face the truth, and overcome his dependence on authority. The pastor's refusal to answer prompted Sigler to explore himself and discover his own strength. Rational guidance helps him face his inner self and think rationally, while emotional acceptance requires trust and love for human potential. Shi Gaile's choice reflects the development of his rationality and love, marking the formation of his productive personality. His choice is not only a manifestation of self love, but also a love for others and humanity. The story of Siglo showcases the realization of personal spiritual and ethical redemption through love, rationality, and creative choices, embarking on the path of freedom and happiness.